Giving Goes Green: Eco-Friendly Wedding Registry Ideas

August 5th, 2010, Christine
Eco-friendly gift registries allow conscientious brides and grooms to make the world a better place as they begin their new life together.

An eco-friendly gift registry allows conscientious brides and grooms to make the world a better place as they begin their new life.

Gifts and weddings have gone hand in hand for centuries, as family and friends eagerly shower the bride and groom with tokens of their well wishes. There was a time—in the not-so-distant past—when it made sense to give practical household items to help fill the newly wedded couple’s home with the essentials for everyday living. But today, with a majority of engaged couples choosing to share addresses long before sharing a last name, traditional wedding registries are giving way to a modern form of gift-giving: the wish wedding registry.

As the name implies, a wish registry can contain anything and everything the couple deems important. But for many environmentally conscious brides and grooms, it’s important that the bridal registry reflects their “green” principles and philosophies. By its very nature, an online registry promotes eco-friendly shopping, as it eliminates product packaging and emissions produced by travel and shipping.

Below are some quick tips for creating an eco-friendly gift registry:

Make a list of registry “must-haves”. When creating a “cash registry” (a registry based on the fulfillment of monetary wishes in the form of cash gifts instead of items), add only the items you truly need as a way of minimizing resource usage and reducing your carbon footprint. Don’t think you’ll use that fancy china or sterling silverware more than once or twice a year? Substitute more practical, durable place settings for your wedding registry.

Register for like-minded brands. There are many modern brands that offer green products. Find out what qualifies their products as eco-friendly, whether it’s all-natural organic materials, recycled materials, fair trade production, an absence of toxic by-products, energy-efficient usage, or a combination of these. Some brands and products further lessen their impact on the planet by donating funds or resources towards environmental causes.

Plan an eco-friendly honeymoon. Consider creating a honeymoon registry that allows guests to donate funds toward your travel expenses. As you jet-set across the globe, help to preserve it by choosing environmentally conscious airlines, hotels, and resorts that share your green sensibilities. As one bride puts it, “I try to live my life in the most eco-friendly way, from buying energy-efficient home appliances to driving a hybrid car, so why not do the same with my registry?”

Fund your green thumb. Love the great outdoors? One of the beauties of a wish shower registry is that you can request anything your heart desires. Instead of buying toasters and crystal, guests can donate money toward gardening tools, landscaping services, or flowers for planting to beautify your home and sustain the environment. You can even encourage guests to purchase a tree on your cash registry, to be planted in their honor.

Support your favorite green initiative. If you’d like, you can bypass the gifts altogether and create a goodwill wedding gift registry. Instead of accepting cash gifts, you can choose a few of your favorite green charities and allow guests to make donations through your wish registry wedding website to commemorate your big day.

In addition to providing guests with an easy, convenient way of expressing their support and well wishes, eco-friendly gift registries allow conscientious brides and grooms to help make the world a better place as they begin their newly wedded life together.

 

Find more ideas for your wedding gift registry, cash registry or online wishing well at UponOurStar.com.  UponOurStar is a wedding registry for wishes, not stuff, whereby your family and friends can contribute wedding money towards your most meaningful wishes - whatever they may be - instead of giving you more cutlery. Create your own personalized wedding website and fill your online registry with meaningful gifts such as your dream home, honeymoon activities, charitable donations, education, and health. Browse other brides’ wedding registries with UponOurStar to brainstorm ideas for your very own Wish Registry or wishing well registry.

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Goodwill Registries: Embracing the Spirit of Charitable Giving

June 25th, 2010, Jennifer
In the spirit of giving back, thousands of philanthropic couples have started a growing trend of charity wedding registries.

In the spirit of giving back, thousands of philanthropic couples have started a growing trend of charity wedding registries.

As the bride-to-be, it’s all about you—and rightfully so. After all, you’re planning the biggest event of your life, so it’s only natural that friends, family, and maybe even passing acquaintances are lavishing you with attention and questions. While the limelight and steady stream of gifts may be fun for awhile, you may eventually find that you’re ready to divert the focus elsewhere.

On the heels of the deadly Haitian earthquakes and devastating oil spills, our society has become more focused than ever on finding creative ways to do good. In the spirit of giving back, thousands of philanthropic couples have kick-started a growing trend of charity wedding registries. The concept is wonderfully simple: instead of registering for dozens of place settings, linens, and household items, brides and grooms are requesting that loved ones demonstrate their well wishes with an online cash registry, and then donating the funds they receive to the charities of their choice. As a bonus, such gift registry donations can also be tax-deductible.

As the creator of the goodwill bridal registry, you’ll have full control over which charities will receive the cash gifts. Choose just one organization to make a targeted impact, or spread out the cash registry donations among several non-profits. Remember, your whole wedding registry doesn’t necessarily have to be about charitable giving – you can also include other non-charitable wishes to help make a dent in wedding expenses, pay for home renovations, and more.

5 Steps to Making a Positive Impact

  1. Create your charitable cash registry on a registry wedding website like UponOurStar.com—it’s fast, free, and easy.
  2. Choose as few or as many charities as you’d like in your wedding or shower registry. Feel free to add other wishes of your choice.
  3. Guests log onto your online registry and are prompted to select one or more of your chosen charities or wishes.
  4. After selecting the number of items they would like to “purchase”, guests’ donations are securely processed.
  5. All funds are securely deposited from your wedding registry into your bank account, and you are then free to transfer them to your favorite charity or charities.

Your online registry account will keep track of all the gift registry details, including donor names, charities, and amounts, making it easy for you to express your appreciation for your guests’ generosity.

A goodwill wedding gift registry provides a fun, easy, and secure way to benefit the causes that are nearest and dearest to your heart. No need to go through the hassle of setting up a wishing well and collecting checks and money gifts that could get misplaced—with online charitable bridal registries like UponOurStar, the funds are conveniently and securely transferred directly to your bank account. Your guests will appreciate the convenience provided by online gift registries, and you’ll have more time to focus on finishing up your wedding planning, while knowing you’re doing your part to make the world a better place.

 

Find more ideas for your wedding gift registry, cash registry or online wishing well at UponOurStar.com.  UponOurStar is a wedding registry for wishes, not stuff, whereby your family and friends can contribute wedding money towards your most meaningful wishes - whatever they may be - instead of giving you more cutlery. Create your own personalized wedding website and fill your online registry with meaningful gifts such as your dream home, honeymoon activities, charitable donations, education, and health. Browse other brides’ wedding registries with UponOurStar to brainstorm ideas for your very own Wish Registry or honeymoon registry.

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Home Sweet Home: Registering for Home Improvements, Décor & More

May 23rd, 2010, Jennifer
 Dreaming about expanding your kitchen or installing ceramic tile? Request home improvements through your wedding registry, so guests can contribute towards your goals.

Dreaming about expanding the kitchen or installing ceramic tile? Add home improvements to your wedding registry.

If you scan a traditional wedding registry, chances are you’ll see plenty of bakeware sets, kitchen storage containers, fine china, and maybe even a crystal vase thrown in for good measure. But one year later, if you were to ask the bride and groom how many of those gift registry items were being put to good use, it would most likely be a very small percentage.

Many forward-thinking couples are foregoing the toasters and silver for a different kind of bridal registry or shower registry: one that’s focused on creating their dream home. Instead of starting out married life with a room crammed full of housewares and a mile-long wish list, they’re using the wedding gift registry to request home improvements, decorative items, and more.

Below are just some of the products and services that are often included in modern wedding registries:

Home improvements and renovations:
Been dreaming about expanding your kitchen, indulging in new carpeting, or installing ceramic tile? Or maybe you’ve got more practical projects on your mind, like replacing a leaky roof, painting the faded exterior trim, or upgrading that ancient furnace. Use your online registry to request specific home improvements, so friends and family can donate cash gifts towards your most meaningful goals.

Decorative accessories:
After months (or maybe even years) of practical spending to save for your wedding, you deserve a little splurging. Instead of setting up a generic cash registry, where people give money online with no designation of how their gift will be used,  you can line-list the items you’d love to add to your home so well-wishers know where their contribution is going. It’s your bridal or shower registry, so feel free to add anything that strikes your fancy: wall art, throw pillows, lamps, chandeliers, area rugs…the list goes on and on.

Lawn and garden:
Take your wedded bliss outdoors by creating an open-air oasis. Gift registries can be used for gardening tools, patio furniture,  landscaping, deck construction, pest deterrents—anything you need to turn your backyard into an extension of your living space.

There’s no rule that says bridal registries have to be formal or stuffy. After all, this is a celebration of your union, and your home is the heart of your new life together. By using your wedding registry to accept money gifts from loved ones, you’ll be able to create a beautiful, comfortable environment and surround yourself with constant reminders of everyone’s well wishes.

Find more ideas for your wedding gift registry, cash registry or online wishing well at UponOurStar.com. UponOurStar is a wedding registry for wishes, not stuff, whereby your family and friends can contribute wedding money towards your most meaningful wishes, instead of giving you more cutlery. Create your own personalized wedding website and fill your online registry with meaningful gifts such as your dream home, honeymoon activities, education, health and charities. Browse other brides’ wedding registries with UponOurStar to brainstorm ideas for your very own Wish Registry or honeymoon registry.

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How to Register for Your Dream Wedding

May 18th, 2010, Christine
There’s no rule that says wedding registries are limited to household items. Why not use your bridal registry to fund the wedding of your dreams?

There’s no rule that says wedding registries are limited to household items. Why not use your registry to fund your dream wedding?

With the average costs of a traditional wedding soaring near $30,000, many of today’s newlyweds are saying “I do” to premature debt. Sure, they might have received plenty of gifts from their wedding registry, but all of those toasters, linens, and picture frames won’t help pay off the steep bills from reception halls, photographers, and other vendors.

There’s no rule that says wedding registries have to be limited to appliances and household items. Today’s savvy brides and grooms are taking a new, economical approach to wedding planning by funding the ceremony and reception with cash gift registries.

Instead of skimping on your big day, why not use your bridal registry to help fund the wedding of your dreams? When you use your gift registry to cover the expenses for your big day, you’ll get to indulge in some of your dream wedding ideas without the guilt that comes with maxing out your credit cards before you’ve even changed your name.

The cash registry is growing in popularity among modern couples, allowing well wishers to donate the amount of their choice. But how can you make the request for cash gifts tasteful and personal for your guests? The answer: instead of simply requesting money, break down the specific expenses into individual gifts. For instance, you can invite family and friends to contribute a cash gift on your online registry to fund any of the following:

• Your dream wedding dress, shoes, and accessories
• Bridesmaid’s dresses, shoes, and accessories
• Tuxedos for the groom and groomsmen
• Wedding rings
• Flowers, music, and wedding décor
• Musical entertainment
• Photography and/or videography

You can even gracefully request money gifts by creating a honeymoon registry, so you can relax and enjoy your first adventure as a married couple without the anxiety of expensive airfare, hotel accommodations, and activities.

Don’t be shy about accepting cash donations for your shower registry—chances are, friends and loved ones will appreciate the convenience of instant online gifting, and will be happy to know that their contribution will be put towards your wedding wishes and your new life together as a married couple.

To add a personal touch, follow up with a thank-you card and photo that shows their cash wedding gift in action. For instance, if someone donates $50 to the purchase of your dream wedding dress, you can send a photo of yourself wearing it and include a hand-written note expressing how they helped make it possible for you to feel like a princess on your magical night.


UponOurStar is a wedding registry for wishes, not stuff. We’re not just another wedding website—we’re a different kind of bridal registry that allows brides and grooms to focus on celebrating their love instead of scrambling to cover pricey wedding expenses. Instead of a blatant cash-registry or wishing well, fill your own custom wedding registry with your most meaningful wedding wishes such as furniture, honeymoon and travel, activities and leisure, wedding expenses, education, health and relaxation, charities, and other initiatives that are important to you as a couple. UponOurStar provides a tasteful way to ask your friends and family to contribute money towards your most meaningful wishes.

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Island Adventure: 10 Beachfront Activities for Your Dream Honeymoon Registry

March 10th, 2010, Jennifer
Consider adding a surfing package to your honeymoon registry and learn to ride the waves like a pro!  You might just learn a new hobby that you can enjoy together.

Consider adding a surfing package to your honeymoon registry and learn to ride the waves like a pro! You might just learn a new hobby that you can enjoy together.

Brainstorming ideas for your wedding registry? A honeymoon registry is an ideal way to truly make the most of your first beach vacation together as a married couple. Whether you’re venturing to a beautiful, secluded island or a resort known for its exciting nightlife, there will be lots to see and do. So instead of a traditional wedding registry filled with ‘stuff’, why not opt for a honeymoon registry filled with adventure!

A travel-themed bridal gift registry is a popular choice for couples that appreciate new places and insist on taking advantage of all their destination has to offer. Your wedding guests will enjoy getting the inside scoop on everything you’re planning for your honeymoon trip, and take great pleasure in helping to make your honeymoon dreams come true  by contributing to your bridal registry.

If you’re thinking about adding honeymoon activities to your wedding gift registry, here are 10 popular beachfront activities guaranteed to add excitement and adventure to your trip:


Honeymoon Registry Idea #1:  Snorkeling

Add a snorkeling adventure or day-trip to your honeymoon registry, and enjoy the tremendous beauty of marine life together.  You can even add an underwater camera to your gift registry to share your sub-marine honeymoon pictures with family and friends.

Honeymoon Registry Idea #2:  Scuba Diving

Your honeymoon is a great opportunity to try something new and exciting. Add a beginner’s scuba diving class to your bridal registry for a truly unique underwater experience.

Honeymoon Registry Idea #3:  Parasailing

Include a parasailing adventure on your online registry.  Together, you can marvel at beautiful views of the beach and surrounding scenery as you soar hundreds of feet above.

Honeymoon Registry Idea #4:  Massages

A beachside massage is the perfect addition to any bridal registry or shower registry. After the excitement and bustle of the wedding, you can decompress and enjoy being pampered as you soak up the rays in your dream destination.

Honeymoon Registry Idea #5:  Jet Skiing

Get wet and wild as you race down the coast on a jet ski built for two!  Add a little fun and adrenaline to your bridal gift registry – your family and friends will love taking part in the process.

Honeymoon Registry Idea #6:  Surfing

No trip to the beach is complete without surfing lessons. Consider adding a surfing package to your honeymoon registry and learn to ride the waves like a pro!  You might just learn a new hobby that you can enjoy together.

Honeymoon Registry Idea #7:  Sailing

If you love to relax in style, a private sailing tour  is a must for your honeymoon registry. Whether it’s a day-trip to a nearby island or a multi-day adventure, a sailboat expedition is an unforgettable addition to any wedding registry.

Honeymoon Registry Idea #8:  Horseback riding

A guided horseback riding tour on the beach is a once in a lifetime experience. So why not take advantage of it? Feel the wind against your back as you enjoy the pristine ocean view atop one of Earth’s beautiful creatures. A horseback ride by sunset is a unique way to add romance to your gift registry.

Honeymoon Registry Idea #9:  Booze Cruise

Enjoy the sheer beauty of the ocean and the warm sun on your skin… all while sipping a few delicious cocktails!  This is a popular item for experience-focused wedding registries, since it invites your wedding guests to have a little fun with their bridal gift selection.

Honeymoon Registry Idea #10:  Cruise Shore Excursions

If you’re going on a honeymoon cruise, be sure to include shore excursions on your bridal registry. From beachside cooking classes to waterfall trekking tours, you’re sure to have a blast!

Creating your wedding gift registry is one of the most exciting parts of the wedding planning process. So put on your thinking cap and dream up unique ways to make the most of your wedding registry or honeymoon registry!

 

Getting married? Get creative with your bridal gift registry! Visit our site at uponourstar.com and view sample wedding registries to get even more gift registry ideas. UponOurStar is a wedding registry for wishes, not stuff. It is a tasteful Cash Gift Registry, whereby your wedding guests can contribute money towards your most meaningful wishes and dreams, to help make them come true.  Visit UponOurStar.com to create your personalized Wedding Wish Registry today.

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Does Your Wedding Registry Fit Your Lifestyle? Tips for Creating a Gift Registry That’s Uniquely You:

March 1st, 2010, Christine
Write down your shared hobbies and interests. These can provide inspiration for a bridal registry that suits your lifestyle.

Write down your shared hobbies and interests. They can provide ideas for a bridal registry that suits your lifestyle.

Common wedding registry items such as toasters and linens can make great wedding gifts, but what do they really say about you as a couple? Think of all the moments and memories you’ve shared together. You probably have shared interests that led to you falling in love with each other. And as you embarked on your relationship journey, you exposed one another to new places, activities and interests that you’ve since come to treasure. When you think back on these experiences, doesn’t it seem only natural that they should be reflected in your bridal gift registry or your personalized wedding cash registry? 

A bridal registry is a wonderful opportunity to call on friends and family to help celebrate the life you’ve begun building together by giving you wedding registry gifts that compliment who you are and all the things you love. Traditional gift registries can be useful for helping couples embark on the new path of marriage, but a wedding gift registry that’s truly suited to your lifestyle, and the life you dream of having together can really enhance your marriage and ensure that every day together is an adventure.

Shared Hobbies

When developing your online registry, write down all of your shared hobbies and interests. If you both love card games, a trip to Vegas might be a great addition to your wedding gift registry. If you enjoy mountain climbing or hiking, recreational gear and a trip to a national park you’ve always wanted to visit could be a wonderful wedding registry gift for you and your future spouse.

Bucket Lists

Many people have “bucket lists”, or lists of things they want to see or accomplish in their lifetime. Whether you’ve always wanted to learn to salsa dance or venture on an African safari, bucket lists are a great way to get ideas for your bridal registry or honeymoon registry that reflect your unique lifestyle.

Weekend Rituals

Sometimes the simple weekend rituals that you share can be the inspiration for creating a wedding registry that suits you perfectly. Do you love catching a flick at the movies? Is there a charming bed and breakfast that you enjoy driving to for a little rest and relaxation? Maybe there’s an Italian restaurant that you visit every Friday without fail. All of these things can inspire gift ideas for a wedding registry, honeymoon registry or shower registry that are a true reflection of the bride and groom.

 

Started the wedding planning process? Wishing for wedding registry gifts that reflect your deepest passions and biggest dreams? Open a new Wedding Wish Registry on our site, and invite family and friends to celebrate the big day with gifts that will bring you a lifetime of joy and memories. UponOurStar.com is a wedding registry for wishes, not stuff. It is a unique and tasteful Cash Gift Wedding Registry or Cash Wedding Registry. Wedding guests can contribute money towards your most meaningful wishes and dreams, instead of giving you cutlery. Visit us at UponOurStar.com to open your Wedding Wish Registry today.

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5 Popular Wedding Gift Registry Items… and Why You Don’t Need Them

February 24th, 2010, Jennifer
Pots and pans can make a nice wedding gift. But don't be afraid to opt for creative gift registry alternatives, like couples' culinary classes.

Pots and pans can make a nice wedding gift. But don't be afraid to opt for creative gift registry alternatives, like couples' culinary classes.

Popular wedding websites such as TheKnot.com and bridal magazines such as Real Simple often provide wedding registry checklists for brides and grooms to help them brainstorm bridal gift registry ideas. These wedding registry checklists typically include items such as flatware, appliances, linens and other household goods.

Just because you’re getting married, doesn’t mean you have to be married to traditional wedding registry gift lists. It’s your special day, which means you can create a gift registry that’s just as fabulous as you are. If you’re a wine lover, wine glasses are a great wedding gift, but a trip to a Napa Valley vineyard would be even better. Get creative and develop a wedding registry that’s truly inspired! After all, your wedding day isn’t just an ordinary day. So why opt for an ordinary gift registry?

Need help thinking outside the box when it comes to bridal gift registry items? Here are a few popular wedding gifts and some alternative ideas that you’re sure to love:

 

Gift Registry Alternative #1:  Formal Dinnerware

While formal dinnerware is a traditional and common wedding registry item, many couples will admit that they get very little use out it. Instead of dinnerware, think outside the box and register for a night on the town, or dinner at the chef’s table at the most exclusive restaurant in your city.

Gift Registry Alternative #2:  Pots and Pans

Pots and pans can make a great wedding gift, especially if you like to channel your inner Julia Child. But don’t be afraid to opt for a more creative bridal gift registry alternative, like international cuisine classes. Nonstick baking pans are great, but learning to make dishes from every region of the world is priceless.

Gift Registry Alternative #3:  Bedding

Because most brides and grooms these days are older, they typically already have a closet full of linens by the time the wedding day comes around. Instead of registering for bedding, adding a weekend getaway at a luxury hotel to your wedding registry could be the perfect way to get a blissful night’s rest.

Gift Registry Alternative #4:  Luggage

What makes a better wedding gift:  items you can take on a trip, or, an actual getaway to a destination of your dreams? Forget the upright bag with the in-line wheels that’s on everybody else’s bridal gift registry. Instead, celebrate the momentous occasion of your wedding with a trip to Hawaii, Paris or another breathtaking destination of your choice.

Gift Registry Alternative #5:  Home Essentials

Vacuums and ironing boards are nice, but it’s likely that you already own them. Besides, are you really that big a fan of cleaning? Why not leave the hard work to someone else and add a maid service to your bridal registry? Think of all the time you’ll save that you can spend enjoying your time together as newlyweds.

 

Getting married? Ready to make your wedding wishes come true? Sign up for your wish registry today at UponOurStar.com.  UponOurStar is a wedding registry, for wishes, not stuff.  Is is a unique type of wedding cash registry that allows brides and grooms to ask for cash wedding gifts, tastefully. Through your personalized wedding wish registry, your wedding guests can contribute money towards your most important wishes and dreams, instead of buying you cutlery.

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The Money Savvy Couple’s Guide to Wedding Registries

February 18th, 2010, Christine
For couples with a keen eye on finances, a wedding cash registry, rather than a traditional registry, may be an ideal option.

For couples with a keen eye on finances, a wedding cash registry, rather than a traditional registry, may be an ideal option.

For many couples with a keen eye on their finances, a wedding cash registry, rather than a traditional wedding registry, may be an ideal option. Starting a newly wedded life together on sound financial footing can help couples avoid conflict that can arise from financial woes and stresses. According to premarital counselors, it’s important that marrying couples begin to discuss financial planning and household budgeting early on (preferably before the wedding) to establish a strong foundation.  

For these and other reasons, it’s becoming increasingly popular to use the bridal registry or shower registry as a way to prepare for the future and meet financial challenges head on. With the help of wedding guests, family and friends, couples can use their wedding gift registry to help eliminate debt or to get started on the journey to a more prosperous future.

Here are a few ideas for the money savvy couple that wants to make the most of their wedding cash gift registry:


Eliminate Credit Card Debt

For brides and grooms that already have substantial credit card debt, undertaking the often-hefty costs of a wedding can be a recipe for disaster. A bridal cash registry (or even a wedding wishing well or online wishing well) can help couples pay down existing and wedding-related debt, and ease financial related stress.

Pay off Student Loans

Student loan debt is on the rise, leaving many college-educated brides and grooms burdened by costly monthly payments. A wedding cash registry is ideal for helping to pay off education-related debts so that the new couple can save for the future or invest their money in a new home, car or other post-wedding necessities.

Start a Long-Term Savings Plan

Using money from a wedding registry to deposit into a long-term retirement savings plan is an ideal option for a frugal bride that likes to plan ahead. What better way to celebrate embarking toward the future together, than by planning for it?

 

For more ideas on cash registries or wedding gift registries, visit our Site at UponOurStar.com. Browsing other wedding registries is a great way to begin brainstorming ideas for your very own UponOurStar Wish Registry. A honeymoon, a dream home, a future child’s education fund… your personal Wedding Wish Registry is limited only by your imagination!  UponOurStar.com is a wedding registry for wishes, not stuff.  Your guests can contribute wedding money towards your most meaningful wishes, instead of giving you more cutlery.

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How to Introduce the Concept of Wedding Cash Registries to Wedding Guests

February 17th, 2010, Jennifer
Wedding Wish Registries tastefully request cash, by emphasizing making a difference in the couple's life

Wedding Wish Registries tastefully request cash, by emphasizing making a difference in the couple's life

Wedding cash registries are growing in popularity, yet there are varying opinions on the etiquette of how to establish one. While the concept of the wedding wishing well is becoming more common, the idea of asking for money – instead of gift items typically found on a wedding registry – is still fairly new, and to some, inappropriate.

A wedding wish registry is a specific type of cash gift registry that places the focus not on cash gifts, but on making a difference in the life of the new couple. A wedding wish registry helps guests to celebrate the couple’s values, lifestyle, personalities, hopes, dreams and everything that makes the couple unique and special.

When establishing a wedding wish registry, be sure to:

Let family and friends know what the money will be used for.

Share your plans to fulfill your sense of adventure with an around-the-world plane ticket, or to invest in furniture and decor to design a nursery for your first child. Your wedding guests will be excited to play a significant role in your happiness, and they’ll be happy to contribute to your bridal cash registry in order to make your wedding wish come true.

Let guests in on the dream.

Share your passions, dreams and desires with your wedding guests. Let them in on what you want most in the near or distant future, and how they can help make your wedding wishes and dreams a reality. Your loved ones want the best for you, and will be excited to help grant your most meaningful wedding wishes through your wedding wish registry.

Show your appreciation.

After the wedding, express your heartfelt thanks for your guests’ cash wedding gifts, and let them know how much their contribution to your cash gift registry meant to you. If you used your wedding gift registry to purchase a big-ticket item such as a house or a car, or to venture on the trip of a lifetime, send your guests a photo to share with them how they helped make your wedding registry dreams a reality.  

 

Planning a wedding? Have you set up your online registry or wedding website yet? Visit our site and create your bridal gift registry or wedding cash registry in just a few simple steps! UponOurStar.com is a wedding registry, for wishes, not stuff.  Your guests can contribute money towards your most meaningful wishes, instead of giving you cutlery.

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Not Your Mother’s Registry: 5 Top Modern Wedding Registry Trends

February 8th, 2010, Jennifer
A new home is one of the most popular wedding wishes found on today’s wedding registries.

A new home is one of the most popular wedding wishes found on today’s wedding registries.

Today’s weddings are less of an exercise in tradition and archaic rituals, and more of a true expression of the personalities, values, hopes and dreams of the bride and groom. This trend is reflected in every aspect of the wedding planning, from the bride’s choice of wedding dress and bridal themes, to the wedding décor and wedding registry.  

Gone  are the days of a gift registry filled with old-fashioned items such as china, crystal and ornate linens that most likely will only be used on special occasions. A modern bridal registry is more likely to include wedding gifts that will fit the couple’s current lifestyles and enhance their new journey together.

Whether you’re a  “Platinum Weddings” bride, frugal bride, bridezilla or laid back bride, there are lots of ways to reflect your personality and dreams in your wedding gift registry. Here are a few popular trends in wedding registry gifts, perfect for today’s bride and groom:


Ticket to Paradise

A honeymoon registry is one of the most popular wedding wishes for modern couples.  Registry gifts can range from an investment in the couple’s dream to backpack around Europe to a week of beachside activities at one of the world’s most luxurious resorts.

Home Sweet Home

Why register for a bunch of ‘stuff’ to put into your dream home when you can actually register for your dream home? A down payment on a new home is not only one of the most popular wedding wishes found on today’s wedding registries, it’s one of the most valuable investments family and friends can make in a couple’s new life together.

A Fresh Financial Start

Student loans and other debt can be a huge burden for a couple preparing to start their new married lives together. A cash registry or an investment in a “fresh start” for a new couple can help them pave their way to a brighter and more prosperous future together. This is a more contemporary spin on the traditional wedding wishing well, and a very popular gift registry trend.

Pay it Forward

Many modern couples start their new lives together by paying it forward. Instead of asking for wedding gifts for themselves, they ask guests to donate money they would have spent on a gift registry items to a nonprofit organization or worthy cause. Typically, donations can be made by mail or by accessing a link on the couple’s wedding website. This year, many couples are likely to ask for donations to the Red Cross and other organizations that are helping to fund the relief efforts in Haiti. 

Gift of Lifelong Learning

A great way to keep your newlywed relationship fresh and exciting is by trying new things together, which is why the gift of lifelong learning is a perfect addition to modern couple’s gift registries. Anything from music classes, cooking classes (an especially ideal gift for a bridal shower registry) or even flying lessons can bring excitement to a new marriage and help a couple continue to grow and strengthen their bond.

Brides often ask us, “Where can I get creative ideas for my gift registry?” View a sample online registry on our site for a peek at other couple’s wedding wishes and then register for a wish registry of your own!

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